I sat down with a bygone the other day and said, "Listen, bygone, you don't have to be just a bygone. You're better than that. You can be more. So much more."
He insisted that I should let a bygone be a bygone. "Give me space, man. I'm just a bygone."
I feel sorry for him with that kind of limited thinking. It's holding him back.
Remember, you don't have to be just you. You can be more than you. If you want to be.